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My Personal Guidelines

A few weeks ago I started to notice a pattern whilst writing my morning pages. One of many advantages of writing this way is that it allows you to organise your thoughts and spot patterns.

The pattern I noticed was centred around a desire to work in a certain way. Although these pricinples were all things I know and strive to do, I didn’t feel like they were front of consciousness thinking.

Accordingly I reviewed my notes and came up with 10 guidelines for approaching my day which I now read each morning.

  1. Prioritise Health.
  2. Plan.
  3. Simplify.
  4. Eat Frogs first.
  5. Disconnect to think.
  6. Connect with people.
  7. Create more than consume.
  8. Only do great work.
  9. Be grateful.
  10. No excuses.

Let’s take a look at these in turn. You could describe these as guidelines to tackle anything.

1. Prioritise Health

I wrote recently about this. No matter what you are doing make sure you’ve prioritised health above it. By covering off your health needs you will perform better in the other areas.

2. Plan first.

This is something I forget – a lot – hence the reminder for myself. You don’t get in a car without knowing where you are going. You don’t start cooking a meal without knowing what you want to make. If spend just 5 mins planning something you will save yourself hours of going round in circles.

An important part of this worth adding to define what done looks like.
This can often conflict with only doing great work, but you have to decide what done will look like otherwise you will never get things out in the world. I could tweak my client sites forever but there comes a point where you have to ship it or you don’t get paid.

3. Simplify.

We make things more complex than they need to be. It’s human nature. Simplifying things doesn’t mean making it easier (it is often harder). It’s about boiling things down to their essentials. I constantly ask myself how things could be simpler.

4. Eat Frogs first.

“Eat a live frog first thing in the morning and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day.” ― Mark Twain

Get your most important (but feared or likely to ) task out of the way first so that you can get on and enjoy the rest of your day knowing that you’ve got the hard bit over with.

5. Disconnect to think.

You can’t think online. You can’t think at a messy desk. Allow your brain to do it’s work and think things through on paper. Actually do this and it makes a massive difference.

6. Connect with people.

Back and forth emails are inefficient. Direct concise phone calls are more effective. Social media is great. Social is better.

7. Create more than consume.

Tipping the scales in the favour of creation rather than consumption is the only way to make progress. I’ve written about this before. I have to take my own medicine on this every hour of every day. Time tracking helps.

8 . Only do great work.

This is a good way of eliminating things that you don’t need to do. If it’s not worth doing well is it worth doing at all?

9. Be Grateful.

No matter what is getting you down you are far more fortunate than most of the world’s population. You need to remember to be grateful. I recommend listing 3-5 things each morning you are grateful for, I use Benny Hsu’s Gratitude 365 app for that.

10. No excuses.

I trying to be concious of not making excuses. If I am making an excuse that something is taking up to much of my time I need to review it. Or a reason why I am not achieveing something, I need to go deeper. Is it an opportunity to overcome this obstacle or a sign that something needs tightening up to overcome this.

I have these guidelines written on a post-it that I read every morning as I begin my day.

Do you have any personal guidelines, or operating systems that helps you to keep moving forward?

Life Is Great

Life Is Great

Take the time to smell the flowers.

When you want to build something incredible; a business, a book or network of awesome connections; you can easily become overwhelmed.

You think of things you still need to do, things that you should have achieved in the last week, month or year, and what you want to be doing in five years time.

While consciously tracking goals is a good way to actually achieve them, you must take time to appreciate what you have now.

The saying goes, “you could get hit by a bus tomorrow” or words to that effect. You need to realise that taking time out to enjoy the present is very important.

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21 Quick Actions You Can Do Today to Unleash Your Inner Creative Self

Take action!

Take action!

If you’re going to create something incredible then you are going to have to take action.

“The gap between ignorance and knowledge is much less than the gap between knowledge and action.”
-Anonymous

To create requires action

But how do you unleash your creative self?

Sometimes it is hard to get your creative juices flowing.

We want action, so I’ve put together this list of 21 quick actions you can do today to unleash your creativity.

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How To Flip The Creative Switch

Creative Switch

Flip the switch to creativity.

Think about all of the favourite things you use or own.

Here’s are some from me, at the moment:

These are things that I am consuming at the moment. I’m sure you have your own list.

Now, think about how these things found their way in to your world.

Creation

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An Open Letter To Myself: Start Creating

Start creating

Stop consuming. Start creating.

Dear me,

If there is one thing that you are an expert in it is consuming information. You really do know a lot of stuff, and that is why you are always advising people.

It’s great that you have been able to narrow down your interests to your core favourites; travel, technology, health, life and guitar.

They’re still a bit all over the place aren’t they?

So you keep reading.

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This One Thing Is Killing Your Future

How far away is your future?

I went to see the Black Crowes last night. Coming out of the gig, with ringing ears, my eyes were drawn to the T-shirts of those around me (I’m a sucker for cool T-shirts). A quote caught my eye:

“The best way to predict the future is to design it.” — Buckminster Fuller, American engineer, author, designer, inventor, and futurist (1895-1983)

Now you may have heard this quote before. I hadn’t and I instantly found it truly inspiring. It resonated with me.

You life is within your control. You can design the life you want. However, there is a missing piece.

Taking action.

I am guilty of not taking action myself. It’s killing my dreams.

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Why I Don’t Use Shampoo

I haven’t been using shampoo for a year now and I love it. What’s more, my hair is healthier than ever and it’s not stinky or too greasy. Why and how have I done this? Read on.

For well over a year now I have been living a primal lifestyle. Pursuing a healthier, happier, easier and more natural life is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I’ve always believed that the stuff in toiletries and cosmetics isn’t good for you, and most of the claims made about the products are false (I used to work in the testing department at a major UK toiletries and cosmetics manufacturer and long story short, the claims on the packets are worded very carefully to fit very limited trial results). Anyway, in pursuit of a natural life I’ve always sided with organic products. Then I read an article about going poo-less and decided to give it a try (don’t dismiss anything unless you try it).
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How To Take A Sabbatical And Explore The World

After getting married in September 2009, my wife and I took a year to travel the world. It was an amazing time and though it cost us a year off work and a lot of money, I do not regret it for a minute. What I would regret however would be if we had not done it.

Too often I hear people say that they would have loved to do what we did, but they don’t have the time, money or have too many commitments to do it. Sure there are a lot of people who have commitments like kids, and sure it does cost a lot of money. The bottom line is that the exprience that you will have is worth so much more that the money you will spend. Plenty of people do it with children every year, and don’t get me started on why it doesn’t matter for your career.
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Find One Thing

Following up on my finding your passion vs interests post, I wanted to pursue another idea.

Follow and find one thing that you can make amazing.

Being a generalist is fun but hard. While many people would see having lots of interests as a good trait, it can limit you. Unless you can find one thing to focus on that you truly believe in and are able to devote most of your energy too, then how are you supposed to be successful? Think about experts you look up to, or people that you admire. Usually you find that these people focus on one thing and they do it really well.
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Why Finding Your Passion Might Not Be The Right Route To Riches

Are you still struggling to find your passion? Have you considered that what you love to do might be different to something you enjoy spending your time doing that can make you money? Could it be that a disconnect between passion and business is healthy after all? Challenge convention. Read on.

Trends

There is a meme in the personal development, lifestyle design, make money online blogging world that discusses finding your passion so that you can make money from it. But what if you don’t need to ‘find your passion’ to find something you can make a living out of that you enjoy doing? Sure enough, people really struggle with finding their passions citing a lack of focus, interests or completely the opposite – too many to choose from. Often the advice is that you are not moving forward because of fear.
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